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How I Found My Happy Workplace

“Men are disturbed not by things that happen, but by their opinions of the things that happen.”-Epictetus

A few years ago I realized my job was making me sick—physically, emotionally, and even spiritually. At least, that’s what I believed.

I would often wake up dreading the workday ahead, wondering what karmic by-law I could have possibly broken to deserve such misery. As time passed I became more and more depressed, confused and angry. I knew I had to make a change but had no idea what needed changing or how to change it.

Unfortunately, this was not a new problem. I’d done many things over the years: labor, retail, self-employment, office work, customer service and they had all made me feel the same way. And I’m not talking about a mild dissatisfaction here. No, this was a terrible get-sick-in-the-morning-just-thinking-about-it-and-want-to-quit-but-can’t kind of hate.
Believe me, it’s not a nice place to be. It has a way of eating away at you—slowly.

So why hadn’t these jobs made me happy? After all, some of them had been well-respected positions. It occurred to me that they must have shared some flaw—some hidden factor that was making me feel the way I did.

I was determined to find out what it was. If I could just figure it out, I was sure I could fix my unhappiness. I explored the all the factors I could think of: salary, co-workers, clients, the physical plant, the commute—you name it. Yet, the more I looked at these things, the clearer it became that none of them warranted the blame I was attempting to bestow upon them.

For example: my unhappiness couldn’t have been linked to the money since I got several raises over the years and I was still unhappy. Co-workers seemed to come and go and every client was different too. So I couldn’t really blame them either. Even the work changed—sometimes every day! I was stumped.

I became afraid that if I didn’t figure it out soon, I’d be stuck forever! There had to be some common link that I was missing. But what was it?

Present Moment Perspective

I didn’t know it at the time but I was unable to see the solution because I had been blinded by the regret and anger of the past. To make matters worse, my fear of the future was growing.
Then one day (don’t ask me why) I simply changed the way I looked at the problem. Maybe I was tired of playing the “blame game”, maybe deep down I knew there was a better way to live.
Anyway, I stopped worrying about how all these crappy jobs had ruined and wasted most of my life. I just let it go.
I also stopped worrying about what might happen in the future. Would I ever find my dream job? Would I ever be happy at work? I let these fears go too.
In doing so, I had (quite by accident) pulled myself fully and completely into the present moment.
This was huge. At the time I didn’t understand the power of what had happened, but it was about to change my life. You see, the present moment is all we really have. It is from “here” that we draw our true strength. It grounds us in a profound way.
Now thinking from the present moment, I was finally in the right spot to make a positive change. I had, in a way, finally showed up for my own life. Now I could see the problem from the correct vantage point; all I had to do was open my eyes. I was about to become aware…

My First Brush with Awareness

I’ve come to see Awareness like a GPS. It lets you see where you’ve been, where you’re going but most importantly where you are.
So many of us go through our entire lives without taking a good look at ourselves and the things around us. When you consider the consequences, it’s really quite sad.
Any problem can be solved through awareness and ‘present moment thinking’.
As I looked deeper for answers, my awareness grew. With that awareness, I saw for the very first time, the common factor that I had been looking for. It was the only thing that had remained constant throughout my entire working career. That factor had been—Me!
I was forced to come to terms with the very real possibility that I (and I alone) was responsible for my own unhappiness. It wasn’t an easy pill to swallow—at first. After all, I couldn’t be the cause of my pain—problems were simply things that happened to me. I wasn’t creating them! Why would I?
But in the end I had little choice but to accept the facts. Logic’s cold accusing finger was pointed right back at me.

There was a process at work here. Let’s review what had occurred so far.
1) By not worrying about (and looking at) the past or the future, I had nowhere else to go but the present moment.
2) While in the present moment, I had a clear vantage granting me a new awareness of the problem. I could now see that I had been the problem, all along.

But I didn’t yet know why…

Moving From the Present Moment to Awareness to Mindfulness

Positioned perfectly in the Present Moment I was finally in the right spot to solve the problem. Awareness opened my eyes to it. Combined, these two conditions helped me to enter an even higher state of consciousness that I call being “presently aware.”
But this still wasn’t enough. Just because I was in the right place and could see the problem didn’t mean I understood how to fix it.
To fix a problem we must understand it—fully. To understand something fully, we must see it for what it truly is. This is mindfulness. Mindfulness is kind of like looking behind the magician’s curtain and seeing that it was all an illusion.
When we understand things for what they truly are (with a sense of mindfulness) we see right through them and come to the understanding that these things are not real at all.
Mindfulness allows us to understand (to know) that no problem exists outside our own minds and imaginations. So in the end there is nothing to fix, because the problem never existed in the first place.
From a state of mindfulness, I was able to understand it had been my own attitudes and actions that were creating my unhappiness. Nobody and no-thing outside myself had any power to make me unhappy unless I gave them permission to do so.

Let’s review this process once more in its entirety…

1) I pulled myself into the present moment by letting go of past’s regret and future’s fear. (Right Location).
2) From the right location, I was now positioned to see the problem. I was now aware of it. (Eyes Open)
3) By combining present moment thinking and awareness I became “presently aware”. (Clearer Vision)
4) The illusion falls. The story, the drama, the fear—all of it ceased to be real to me. (Mindfulness/ Knowing).

Now with this process in place, all I had to do was train myself to stay aware of when I felt unhappy at work. Then step back and know that I was in control of my happiness and that it was not controlled or created by any outside element. But I still had to choose to do it.

Choosing Happiness

This process can only work if you make the choice to use it. It’s hard work. It takes will and dedication. But it’s worth it.
In time as you move toward mastery you will understand that you and you alone are in control of your happy workplace.

To learn more about how you can move towards mindfulness in your life and workplace please read my book, “My Happy Workplace.”

The Tar Pit: What To Do When You’re Stuck In a Bad Day.

Bad days. I’m amazed by how they can sneak up on me when I least expect it.

Here’s how it usually goes. Everything seems okay. The morning starts out nicely. Then something happens, then something else happens and before I know it, I’m stuck—right up to my armpits.
I affectionately call this the “Tar Pit”—a veritable boat load of problems, hang-ups and trials. Sound familiar?

When you’re in the tar pit it’s really easy to start feeling sorry for yourself. Maybe you get stressed out, or even angry, wondering “Why me?” Believe me, I know the feeling.

When I find myself in the tar pit I tend to complain, blame everyone and everything, spiraling down ever deeper into the pit. The more I struggle to regain some measure of control, the deeper I go. Not a very healthy reaction, I admit. But, I’m getting better.

But there is good news: the tar pit isn’t nearly as bad as it sounds; not nearly as bad as it was for ill-fated woolly mammoths or other prehistoric creatures. For them, getting stuck in a tar pit was a death sentence. And what about poor Brer Rabbit? Remember him? Once they got stuck—it was almost impossible to get out. Luckily for us, the tar pit I’m talking about is far easier to escape—if you know how.

1) Stay Aware
Woolly Mammoths and little Brer Rabbit found themselves in a sticky situation because they weren’t paying attention. Being present and aware is the best defense against the Tar Pit. If you are alert, you will instantly know when you have stepped into the pit and will be able to take corrective action—which is to step back.

2) Step Back
When you first recognize that things are starting to go bad—step back and take a breath. (Literally and figuratively). Center yourself. Take a few seconds to look at the situation from the outside. Is it really so bad? Is it worth risking the tar pit?

3) Appreciate
What is actually happening? Understand it. Instead of reacting with emotion and bias really look at it. Settle into it with a calm knowing. If the problem seems to be coming from a co-worker or somebody else; try looking at the situation from the other person’s perspective. If it’s the workload, try exploring why its upsetting you. Is there too much? Too difficult? Then break the work down into more manageable bits, and only focus on one bit at a time until it’s done and then move on.

4) Remember
We are not disturbed by the things that happen, but by our reaction to the things that happen. Never forget that we control how to react to an event. The event does not control us.

5) Choose
Make a choice to remember, to appreciate, to step back and to be aware.\

Ultimately, whether or not you find yourself in the tar pit, it comes down to you. It is also your choice to how long you stay there.

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Seconds of Silence (Part Two)

It’s amazing what a few seconds of silence can do—the power it holds. And you should congratulate yourself for taking those few seconds. It may seem like a small thing, but we rarely give ourselves the permission to appreciate and embrace silence in any kind of deliberate or meaningful way. We have forgotten how silence can nourish, heal and connect us. We have been so conditioned by our modern, noisy society that we actually feel uncomfortable when things are “too quiet”. How messed is that?

The power of silence is profound. Sometimes, for me, silence is so tangible that it is as if I can dip my hands into it like a healing balm. Silence is one of the greatest gifts I give myself.

Silence is also a bridge to creative source—a link to inspiration. It is where the power resides to make art, solve problems and to thrive in this creative world of ours. Take music for example. We typically associate it with sound—its rhythm and notes, instruments and voice. It is a purely auditory art form. And yet, it is not the sound that makes music beautiful—that gives it the power to move the human heart. No, it is the empty spaces between the notes that give music life. Without silence, music could only exist as one long droning note. It would be nothing but noise.

No wonder it’s been said that “God’s one and only true voice is silence”.

As I write this, it’s a little after 4:30 in the morning. The world around me is still. There are no cars or trucks rumbling outside. No lawnmowers or weed-whackers droning. No T.Vs, computers or cell phones humming. Even the birds are sound asleep in their nests. It is times like this that give me a deep appreciation for silence and the creative energy that accompanies it. I find silence in ample supply during this time of the day: (right around 4:30am to 6:00am). Some people call this the “Holy Hour.’ For me it’s a wonderful time to create, think and connect.The poet Rumi once wrote:

“The breezes at dawn have secrets to tell you. Don’t go back to sleep.”

I’ve previously described creativity as energy–pure energy that fuels our lives and art in breathtaking ways—provided it is not blocked. And few other things can block creativity like noise—whether it be internal chatter or external clatter.

That being said, it only takes silence a moment to reconnect us, to unblock creative energy stuck by noise. In this way I am happily reminded of how this awesome power is constantly around us and how it can be accessed after mere seconds of calm stillness.

In fact, creative energy is always present; we just can’t always “hear” it because of all the noise in our lives. But no matter how loud that noise gets, it can never totally cut us off from creative source energy. We are a part of that energy and it is a part of us. There is no separation. Even though that connection may get blocked from time to time. But it’s nothing that a quick dose of silence can’t fix.

If you’re an artist and are currently blocked or if you’re facing a problem (the solution to which is eluding you) try approaching the problem from a place of silence—both mentally and otherwise. To do this find a quiet time and place. Then before you start empty all the mental chatter—the doubts, the fears, the to-do lists, the problems, the art itself. Instead, focus on your breath and (more so) the silence between each inhale and exhale. Slowly allow that silence to wrap around you, allow it to fill your mind, your spirit. The more you do this, the stronger your connection with creative power will become and the solutions to your creative blocks and problems will appear, as if from nowhere.

THREE GREAT WAYS TO CONNECT TO SILENCE

1) Give yourself the permission to be still. Allow yourself just a couple minutes a day to reconnect and refuel your creative power through silence. The world won’t fall apart if you give yourself a minute or two, will it?

2) Breathe. Be mindful of your breathing. It is your connection to silence and silence is your connection to your creative power and your creative power is your connection to your true and authentic self.

3) Try getting up early. Experience the power of the “Holy Hour” for yourself. Don’t let that comfortable bed entice you. Don’t go back to sleep. Important secrets are being whispered specially for you. Perhaps they are the solutions to the very problems you are experiencing right now.

The next time your find yourself blocked either artistically or in life, try spending a few seconds with silence to find a solution. I think you will be pleased with the result

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Seconds Of Silence (Part One)

“The breezes at dawn have secrets to tell you. Don’t go back to sleep.” – Rumi

I’m going to begin this post by asking that you not read it—not just yet, anyway.

Instead, I invite you to take a moment for yourself—don’t worry, I’m only asking for a few seconds. (About the time it takes to slowly breathe in and out once.)

Ready?

Okay. Now sit up nice and straight. Make sure you’re comfy. Close your eyes andslowly pull in a deep breath. Then simply let it out…

If that felt good, treat yourself to another breath. But this time focus on just the breath, itself. Don’t think about everything that’s happening in your life, or that looming project or problem. Try to think of nothing at all. Just focus on your breath.

Gently immerse yourself in silence for another few seconds. Soak it up. Do that now. When you’re ready to continue reading just click on the hour glass below…

Comfortable?

“A dream is your creative vision for your life in the future. You must break out of your current comfort zone and become comfortable with the unfamiliar and the unknown.” Denis Waitley

I’d like to think that I’m starting to figure out my life, but I know better. The more I learn, the less I actually know. The things I once thought to be simple are far more complex than I could have ever imagined. I must say, it’s a bit humbling. Take the concept of comfort, for instance. It seems simple enough, right? Everybody loves comfort. And what’s not to love? It’s so—well—comfortable. And yet there’s another side to comfort that I’ve never really thought about, until recently.

Western society has programed us to crave comfort. Advertising, popular media, even the education system is designed with the promise of giving us a more comfortable life.

I’ll admit that I like my comfort—a pleasant summer’s day, a tasty meal, living in a nice home, and having a sense of abundance are some of the niceties that make getting up in the morning worthwhile. I’m grateful for these things. But these same comforts can also create problems in our lives and (since this post is about creative blocks) even in our creative pursuits—if we become too attached to them.

And there’s the rub. It’s the attachment to comfort that creates the problem—not the comforts themselves. Most of us are far too attached to comfort. And it’s understandable. Once we find something that feels comfortable or brings us a sense of security, we tend to hold onto it—with an iron grip. And this is how we get stuck. Not only artistically, but in life, as well.

We get stuck because playing it safe, cocooned in the familiarity of our daily lives and routines, is contrary to our natural sense of curiosity. It is this inborn curiosity that that pushes us to explore and seek out new experiences.

Your ego craves comfort, while your spirit (your creative self) craves curiosity. So we often find ourselves oscillating between curiosity and comfort—with comfort winning most of the time. The result is eventual disenchantment and artistic dead ends.

So why do we do it? The trap and illusion of comfort is subtle. It’s a tricky little bugger and so is our ego. Even if we break free from its grip and explore something new we still have to remain mindful. The new experience will re-energize us, expand and renew our spirit. Hence it feels great. This is a good thing. But it feels so good that we almost immediately start to get attached to the new feeling and we live according to the newly created parameters associated with these feelings. If we are not mindful, and remain here too long, we’re back in the cocoon!

The trick is to keep moving, to keep growing. Constantly.

As an artist be aware of how comfort can be a huge block to creativity. Imagine yourself making the jump into an exciting new creative venture. It’s so successful that you begin to rely on it. Over time it becomes your new artistic routine, your style. But later on, the fire goes out of it. It becomes boring and expected. The spark you first had is gone. Despite this, it’s still safe. It’s known territory. So you hold on to it. Now you’re blocked.

Remember, we create our best work when we feel just a little scared or anxious, when we are playing on the outer rim and exploring those rough edges of our artistic boundaries. All of which exist just outside our “comfort zone”. It can be extremely scary to go there—into the unknown. But we are always the better for it. It is the only way we can grow creatively.

Imagine what might happen if you become so comfortable that you never again ventured outside your comfort zone? Could you survive and thrive as a dynamic artist? Would your art mean anything to you or to anyone else?

Art, writing or even life needs to grow and expand. It has to push at these rough edges, into something new. Behind every fear, our greatness resides. But we have to be willing and courageous enough to scratch at the wall of the cocoon—to tear into it and push through to find our potential.

Our minds are sparked by new experiences, new ideas. The unknown. The unfamiliar. The scary. An unchallenged mind is happy and quite content to stay curled up in its warm cocoon. But, such a mind isn’t truly living—merely existing. It certainly can’t create on any meaningful level.

So how can we avoid this cycle of entering new experiences only to eventually get overcome by the comfort they offer?

1) Examine your present comfort zone. Explore your life and creativity. Get present and mindful with it. Has it fallen into a rut? When was the last time you tried something new or scary? Does today look much the same as yesterday? Does last week look the same as this one?

2) Think outside of your comfort zone. In your art, consider new creative possibilities. In life, is there something you want to try but have been too scared to? Imagine yourself doing that thing that excites you.

3) Move outside your comfort zone. You don’t have to tear your entire life up, abandoning everything all at once. Just make one change, for now. Explore one new avenue of experience. If you are a writer or an artist, reach out to a new and potentially non-responsive audience, try a new style or topic. Take a chance.

Do this and you will have a better chance to reignite your creativity and life in exciting ways. Remember your life isn’t about reaching some end goal of ultimate comfort only to retire and then head off comfortably into the great beyond. It’s an ongoing creative process of exploration and excitement loaded with unlimited possibilities. But you have to be willing to reach for them. Tear through the wall. Step into something new—today.

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Motivation

4:30 AM. I open my eyes. Even though the sun hasn’t come up yet, the birds are singing outside. I climb out of bed and stretch. The bedroom feels uncomfortably cold. Most everybody I know is still fast asleep—tucked away in their warm beds. Twenty minutes later, I’m at my desk writing. Am I crazy? An insomniac? Maybe a crazed insomniac? Or am I something else?

For years I never thought about why I wanted to write—not consciously anyway, not thoughtfully. I had a vague idea, at best. But in goal setting “vague” doesn’t quite cut it.

I’ve since learned the importance of keeping my motivation aligned with creative energy. I’ve previously described inspiration and creativity as energy that flows not from us but through us. If our motivators are misaligned that flow of energy it will get blocked. So, the very things that we think are motivating us, could be getting in the way.

The vast majority of artists do not give nearly enough attention to the concept of motivation. Why do they do the things they do? Why do they paint, compose or write? What truly motivates them? Many artists undertake their creative endeavors without knowing what their true motivators are and then they wonder why they get blocked. For example, an artist might think she plies her craft because of a particular reason, when in reality the true motivator lies hidden, just beneath the surface. As such, she goes about her art never aware what is actually driving her. If those drivers (those motivations) happen to be blocking her creativity the art will suffer.

Does a writer write to tell stories? To make characters and world’s come to life on the page? Or does he do it in the hopes of becoming rich and famous? Perhaps she does it to gain the love and respect of her audience? Maybe he wants to please his parents? Maybe she fears that she can’t do anything else?

Whatever it is, it is important to take the time to figure out what is “actually” motivating you. Not what you “think” is motivating you.

This may not be easy. It involves getting to know yourself on a deeper, more spiritual level than you may be used to. This kind of “soul work” can often be painful, but the results can be extraordinary. Then will you have a better understanding if your motivators have been blocking your creativity or not.

So how can you tell if your motivation is helping or hindering you?

You may find it helpful to study the artists you aspire to. The creative geniuses who seem to possess an almost magical talent. Think about the best writers, musicians and visual artist alive today or those who have lived throughout history—those who create (or created) on a level that most of us can barely comprehend. For contemporary artists: listen to interviews, read bio’s. How do they view their creative processes, what do they think about the work and even themselves. For historical figures: read as much information as you can about them. I’m talking about artists like Michelangelo, Leonardo da Vinci, Shakespeare and Mozart.

As you examine these individuals explore what sets them apart. What makes them great? I believe you will find that they all possessed great motivation.

First and foremost the Greats are always motivated by the art, itself. They do it for no other reason. They follow their passion with a ridiculous determination. They’re completely involved and absorbed by the work they do—by the act of creation—because they love it.

Strangely, you’ll also find that they are not overly concerned about the outcome or the end product—at least not during the act of creation. The Greats stay in the moment completely. Hours might pass, yet the artist is totally unaware of the outside world. She is not concerned or is motivated by anything beyond the act of creation. He does what he does because he has to—period.

Nor do they do it for a reward. Whether that reward be the praise of others, money, or respect. They are not concerned with what their art might give them or what they might get out of it. They simply create to create.

The Greats are not motivated by what others might think about the work, either. They never allow the art to be influenced by the audience, or the morality of Society. The art drives itself. The art takes itself where it needs to go without worrying about the opinions of others.

As such, the great artists tend to go with the flow, with creative energy. Great artists allow this energy to flow through them—with as little interference as possible. That means they get themselves out of the way as much as possible. In a way they align themselves to the flow of this energy and they know the importance of being absolutely true to it.

To sum up—motivation could be misaligned if it is based on:

1) Fear and doubt.

2) A sense of reward or outcome.

3) The opinions of others.

4) Unclear goals.

Take some time to get to know yourself and what drives you. What gets you up in the morning? Why do you create? Then slowly bring those motivations closer in alignment with the only thing that matters—the art. Once your motivation is aligned with creative source you’ll be amazed at what you can do and how well you can do it.

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Are You Creative?

I’ve always considered myself to be a creative person. It’s also fair to say that I’ve seen my creativity as my most valuable trait—a prized possession, or an indispensable tool. As such, I cared for it and honed it over the years. In that time I came to depend on it heavily. I even started to identify myself by my creativity—it became who I was. So much so, that if I had ever been faced with losing that aspect of my personality I might have lost myself as well.

Yet, as important as my creativity was, I never once questioned where it came from or even what it was. I had simply (and quite arrogantly) assumed that I had “created” it. It was a part of me. I had developed it over the years with effort, experience and talent. Hadn’t I?

Strangely, when I did go looking for it, I couldn’t find it. I desperately wanted to touch it, to feel it and to assure myself that my creativity was safe and sound inside me. Maybe I wanted one of those “creative bones” that people talked about. I was more than willing to put up the down payment on a prime piece of real estate somewhere in my brain reserved just for my creativity. You know, a nice plot of gray matter, overlooking my cerebellum, where I could go whenever I wanted to write or draw.

The problem was that my creativity never really felt like it came from me—not really. My best moments of inspiration came and went in a blur, leaving something wonderful behind without a clear memory of how I had done it. Sometimes, if I wasn’t fast enough to capture the inspiration on paper, the idea would be lost. How could this be if I was the one creating? If I was in fact the source of the inspiration?

What if I was fooling myself? What if I was not the source of my creations? Had all my creativity come from somewhere else—outside of me? And where did that leave my identity? Who was I if I wasn’t the creative person I thought I was? Could I continue to write or was I just faking it?

If you do a quick web search about creativity you will find hundreds (if not thousands) of web pages describing rational, scientific explanations involving theories of psychology, determinant factors of intelligence, circumstance and chemical reactions. People have written volumes, presented workshops and lectures all detailing impossibly complicated conditions under which creativity occurs internally—within the person. Now you might think that this would have reassured me. My creativity was, in fact, tucked away somewhere inside me. Science said so! According to the research creativity is “simply” a matter of having just the right timing, education, talent, relationships and happenstance with a few chemicals and neurons thrown in for good measure. But this didn’t sound right either. If it were all so complicated then inspiration would have never gotten out of the gate and creativity would have died a terrible death centuries ago.

No, as much as my Ego wanted to hold onto my own creativity, it seemed less likely that it is was internal biological process. So I was left with the alternative—I was not the source of my creations. Something else was.

The concept that creativity flows to us, rather than from us, isn’t new. The Greeks (the forefathers of modern creativity and art) saw inspiration as a dish offered up by the Muses—invisible guides directing the artist’s hand. Michelangelo said that his famous sculpture “David” already existed, hidden inside the marble. All he had to do was chip away the pieces that didn’t belong. An intelligent Roman did not consider himself a genius but rather believed he had access to a Genius or Genii, a spirit being whose purpose was to direct and instruct.

Now, it’s not necessary for us to start believing in unseen beings and voices to grasp the concept of external inspiration. But, I’ve learned to appreciate ancient traditions and beliefs for what they are—attempts to explain unseen processes by way of stories. They can help us to see creativity in a different way. One that is less Ego-driven.

The Ego weighs us down with things like pride, fear and doubt. All of which block creativity. It is very difficult to create from a place of Ego. It comes with far too much baggage. In contrast, if we see creativity more like energy—a force that does not originate from us, but through us, we simply need to remain open to receive that energy. And as it passes through us it is released in wonderful by-products: novels, paintings, poetry, music and just about everything else created.

Creative energy is in a constant state of movement through us. But it can only be expressed when we open up to it. Call it what you like: Source, Sub-conscious mind, Tao, The Field, God. Every tradition has a name for it. What’s important is that we recognize it.

In this way, I believe we can all (and do) access creativity. The only difference is that some of us tend to block it, while others accept and use it. Creativity is not complicated at all—it comes down to a very simple question: are you open or closed?

So the first step in becoming more creative is to understand that you can’t. Creativity is not something that can ever be possessed, it can only be accepted and released. This is how we truly create.

If you believe that you don’t have a creative bone in your body, you might instead ask yourself how you could be blocking this natural flow of energy.

Next week I’ll start to explore these blocks one at a time and in more detail. I’ll also be offering suggestions on how to unblock them. Until then, thanks for visiting.To read more of my work please visit my blog or check out my book “My Happy Workplace.” now free for download at Smashwords. If you have any questions or comments drop me a line at: troy_roache@hotmail.com.

Perfect Imperfection

As a teenager my need to prove myself drove me to perfectionism. Everything I did had to be perfect, pristine and precise—to the extreme. So much so that I was spending more and more time and effort not just reaching my goals but unnecessarily exceeding them.

Tweaking and redoing became a compulsion for me—especially in my creative endeavors. Ironically, the need to reach my imagined view of perfection often destroyed the very thing I was trying to perfect. What I didn’t know then was that there is no such thing as perfection. What is perfect for one person is flawed for another.

In fact, it is the flaws, those tiny imperfections, which make something truly come to life and allow it to move pass the ordinary to the extraordinary. Until I learned this, my true creativity remained blocked.

Here I would like to offer my heartfelt thanks and gratitude to my friend and former teacher Vernon Oickle for teaching me this very important life-lesson. Throughout my high school years Vernon took on the role of my unofficial mentor. He taught me lessons that went far beyond Biology or Chemistry. Lessons that have helped me become the person I am today.

Vernon taught an oil painting class on Thursday nights and asked me to join. I can still remember the smell of the oils to this day. I enjoyed it very much, but I was frustrated when I couldn’t execute a particular landscape or object. Every so often, Vernon would look over my shoulder and suddenly tell me to stop. “There! That’s amazing! Don’t touch it. Leave it just the way it is.” He might have been referring to a subtle brush stroke or a bit of shading that I had done, no doubt, by accident.

I’d often protest, saying that it needed just one more thing. In these times, Vernon would give me a knowing look of warning and smile as I ignored the advice and attempted to tweak the painting—only to ruin the specialness of what I had done. “Know when to let it go,” was his usual response.

The idea of “creative release” had never occurred to me until then. Inspiration flows through us, not from us. As such, we must let it move along. If we fail to release the creative energy and try to hold it too long it will sour and spoil the work. “Let it go. Release it.”

Vernon is a humble and modest man and probably doesn’t remember the important life-lesson he taught me, but he showed me the importance of artistic imperfection. All things of beauty and greatness have some intrinsic flaw that make them special—that make them extraordinary. Even today I can hear his voice as I’m writing and feel the need to pick at the work unnecessarily:“Remember Troy, excellence before perfection.”

Make the work it’s very best while accepting it can never be perfect. Excellence, however, is an achievable and worthwhile goal. Excellence is knowing that exact moment when to release your inspiration to the world. A second too early and it may fall short, a second too late and it may crumble.

Everyone can appreciate excellence, but we all have a different idea of perfection. Excellence allows an artist to complete a great work, while perfection stalls and kills it.

Excellence before perfection. Know when to say enough is enough and release it. Your work will not only turn out better, but you will feel better about it and get more done.

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Let Things Fall Apart

If you really want to get something done faster and better, be first prepared to let it fall apart. Even though there’s nothing more frustrating or defeating than having worked for hours on a project only for it to fail, let it crumble in your hands—happily and with a smile on your face.

Now before you think I’ve totally lost it, let me explain. I recently noticed a fascinating pattern. It occurs when I’m working on a new project. For me, it’s usually a piece of writing, but it happens for other things too. For you, it might be any number of activities: trying a new recipe, renovating, or (God help you) spending an afternoon in “Ikea Hell”.

Picture yourself working on Project X. You have a few hiccups but you begin to figure it out and move on. The project is proceeding nicely, then stalls unexpectedly. You take a breath and regroup. But its start and stop from there on. After a few hours you’re almost done and BLAM! You realize it’s not working. You scramble to figure out what went wrong, desperately trying to salvage the day, but it’s too late. All that time. All that effort. Gone! Wasted! Or was it?

What you do next will ultimately determine your success—or lack thereof. You could swear, pull out some hair, throw Project X through the window, maybe even quit. Or you could let Project X fall apart—happily.

Now you might have just concluded that none of the above options will get Project X done. Maybe, maybe not.

Consider for a moment what Einstein once said about problem solving: “No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it. You must learn to see the world anew.”

In other words, Einstein was saying that we can’t apply old thinking (current consciousness) against new problems.

Why?

Well, let’s look at how you arrived at your current level of consciousness. Your consciousness is the sum total of all your beliefs. This “belief system” informs and advises you on what is possible for you. Those beliefs were and are created from your past experiences.

Do I take road A or B? Should I accept this job or that one? Should I attempt Project X? Can I really do it? In this way your belief system causes you to impose limits on yourself based on what you believe is possible for you.

See your consciousness as an expanding bubble, if you will. And you are, right now, on its leading edge. This edge represents the essence of your current potential. You will not be able to accomplish anything that is beyond that edge—until you (as Einstein suggested) “Look at the world anew.”

Interestingly, this is exactly what happens when a project fails. You have simply reached the outer limits (that leading edge) of what you believe is currently possible for you.

Now, here’s the cool part. The very act of working on a new and unfamiliar project has already expanded your consciousness. You just have to give it a chance to catch up. I call this “creative lag”.

It is here where most people run into problems because they see creative lag as a negative instead of an opportunity. As a result these people often quit believing that the project is impossible. When that’s rarely the case. When things fall apart your consciousness is simply in a holding pattern waiting to expand past the point it once occupied. It’s like a wave breaking over the rocks.

If you are expecting the break and understand that is it a necessary part of the creative process you will be less likely to be upset when it happens. In this way you can take full advantage of the opportunity and see it as a cue to step back and take a “break”. Let it fall apart. Walk away from it.

I now find myself anticipating these breaks, when in the past they caused me distress and anxiety. I actually get excited when they happen because I know that I’m close to a “Breakthrough”. As a result, the word “breakthrough” has taken on an entirely new meaning for me. When a project breaks for me I know it’s time to put it away. When I return to it, I am able to approach the problem with a new clarity and understanding. Solutions just seem to appear from nowhere.

When “so-called” problems arise simply take a satisfied breath and put the work down knowing that everything will be better tomorrow. Try it! You’ll be amazed how well this process works.

Let things fall apart. Be mindful of that break. Anticipate it. Use it. You’ll be glad you did.

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The Seed of Inspiration

Imagine that it’s a day like any other day. You’re just sitting there (I won’t mention where) and Eureka! you get a one-in-a-lifetime idea. I mean a really big idea. You know it’s special because you can feel the hair stand up on the back of your neck. Maybe it’s for a new business, or an invention or even a book.

At this stage that big idea of yours is compressed into a single pin-prick of inspiration. Contained in that infinite speck, your wonderfully complex idea sits in its own potentiality, just waiting. But it’s still only a thought—a potential of a thing. It’s literally and metaphorically a seed. It will need to grow beyond that seed and any seed needs three things to grow:

1. Energy

2. Space

3. Time

Without this magical trio the seed could lie dormant forever—never realizing its potential. If it sits long enough it may even die.

Now we all know how to grow a seed. Put it in the ground, give it water and sunlight and wait awhile. The key is that it must be nurtured. That big idea of yours is no different.

But how do we nurture inspiration? We can’t just dump some dirt on it, water it and presto—instant dream! Or can we?

Interestingly, the same basic rules apply between any regular old seed (like a pumpkin or maybe an apple seed) and a seed of inspiration. Both need energy, space and time.

How do we give an idea energy?

Answer: By focusing on it; by giving it undivided attention. The more focus put on the idea, the more it will grow. Focus and attention are the fuel to any thought form.

How do we give an idea space?

Answer: By realizing its unlimited potential. Never allow your big idea to become restricted by fear and doubt or by what other people think is possible for it. Your idea’s natural state is one of expansion. It wants to grow. Keep in mind that everything ever created first started out as a thought. Your big idea exists in that wonderful quantum realm where anything is possible. All you have to do is get everything else out of its way.

How do we give an idea time?

Answer: By not rushing it. Understand that every journey begins with a single step. Buddha said: “The jug fills drop by drop”. And the 64^th verse of the Tao reminds us that the giant pine tree grows from a tiny seed. Christian tradition speaks of how there is a season for everything. Things happen on their own schedules. Ideas must unfold naturally. If you wish to build an amazing tower, you will need to give it the space to climb, one floor at a time. Nor would you would ever build the tenth floor, before the ninth.

At some point you will have to unleash that big dream into the world. Release is one of the most important ways you can give your idea space. Ever heard the expression: Let go and let God? Feed your idea, focus on it, and then let it go. Imagine what would happen if you dug up your pumpkin seed every few hours to see if it was growing? It would die under the weight of all the attention. There is another wonderful bit of advice from the Tao: The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come. She steps out of the way and lets the Tao speak for itself.

When inspiration strikes, it does so for a reason. An idea wants to see form—through you, but it can only do that if you nurture it and if you care for it. Then let it go so it can grow naturally into what it was always meant to be. If you like this or any of my other posts, please leave a comment. I would love hearing your views.Thanks for visiting.